Monday 7 April 2008

Air...Its Ours!!!

This post can easily go back 2 years back, to my group discussion and interview day in the Mass Communication Dept. The topic was Sex Ratio in Haryana and Punjab. Well I can’t be modest here and can without doubt say that I was outstanding in the 1st round and knew that Iwould qualify. Another girl with braces on and nervousness hounding on spoke well and I knew that she was my competition in the group. Well she did make it and was always called the Sonia Gandhi of the class (she mimicked her really well)

On the first day I met this cousin of one of my batch mates from college, and ya we did hit off well enough to last forever (at least I can hope so). She thought that Nothingman (an extremely tall senior of ours) was a girl! Then there was this group of 4 girls from Carmel (well they all are a little too proud of the fact still, and it is a little irksome!!) A few more days, me and this cousin of my batchmate also became a part of this gang which comprised the gold medalist of the 1st year- a complete tomboy though girly at heart, a doe eyed beauty, a hard working girl with the perfect bun and the ‘kasauli cottage’ and last but not the least a devout Christian girl with loads of guy friends (chuckle!).

A Delhi girl who’ loved’ Delhi, literally was also around the group, her camaraderie and clashes very off and on with members of this gang of mine.

Then there was this guy who was the PR of the class. I chose him for my documentary and ya did we fight? Well like cats and dogs. All money collections for all parties, he was always out with a list. (Please read this post and return my fabindia folder.) This PR guy had a dusky Bong girlfriend (well I used to get a lot of compliments from her). She still remains the smartest Bong girl I have ever met.

Also there was this artiste, an amazing cartoonist and a pleasant person. Well apart from a dose of everyday hug, patting my nose was like a ritual. This artiste friend had a huge crush on this girl from sports quota. Amazing sportsperson and more then that somebody who knew how to lose gracefully. The sportsperson used to hang out a lot with one of her friends who was equally quiet but came across as an extremely nice person.

This artiste had a friend who still is known as the Mastermind of the media festival. His girlfriend, also called as the first lady of the festival (she also won Miss Mass Comm recently), could never really be my type of friend, though I knew her for 5 years. She may be happy in her own skin but I still feel that her pretentiousness was too overpowering for me to like her. No judgements here but ‘To each his own I guess’. I anyways wish her all the best.

Then there was this chick, the one, all guys would literally scuttle after. The one with a sexy dressing sense and perfect straight hair falling over her eyes and cheeks all the time, well man! In the words of guys, “She was hot!”. She had 2 friends, one a baby who had just not grown but had exceptional writing skills and one extremely tall girl who was too humble to be true but ya sweetness in profundity.

The media fest guy that I was talking about, also had an ex girlfriend. Well that’s not her identity but ya she was a little uncanny for me however extremely passionate about what she wanted in life. This uncanny friend used to be found a lot with the tallest girl in my class (She was 5 feet 8 inches and I used to tell her that I might ultimately end up with a guy as tall as you…and laughters!!). Her intrepid questions with conviction in MK’s class are worth recollection.

Then 2 girls I used to hang out with a lot. One a little too plump a girl (well that’s a cute way of saying that she was fat) and one so thin, that she looked like a malnourished child but ya we did spend some memorable times together.

Also there was this extremely cute chink guy who loved Rock music, a chink girl with mind blowing dressing sense and another chink girl with a Punjabi brother-in-law!

There was a guy who looked like a criminal (he was also our DR) and an extremely tall guy who had 2 kids at home but still wanted to be in the department (I still am unable to decipher as to what was he really upto.) Then there was my laughing partner who always cribbed about her ‘PG wali aunty’ and her plump and cute friend- her hi in the morning would brighten up quite a lot. There was also an extremely quiet girl, who I really became friends with towards the end of 1st year. Miss Serenity, extremely hardworking, but sweety, take a chill pill at times!

The girl who is getting married to the ‘Hawks’ guy, ‘aadha chammach’ and ‘sone’ girl, curly hair girl who loved to laugh aloud, another sportsperson, who has a 24 lakh per annum worth a job offer from America, a chamba girl, the décolletage girl (well the farewell day reminds me of that) who had a surd boyfriend, a sociologist with a weirdly sensual and sluggish talking style.

Gosh! At the end of it all, I am going to cherish everything! To count the number of memorable events is tough in this nightmare-cum-fantasy filled sleep which had lasted up till today. I lived through it all, and every moment left a deep impact in me. It isn't all about sadness, but about letting go. About committing the same mistakes, about not growing up

And yes in the end, my favourite line, I loved and unloved it all at the same time.

But the air in that department is definitely ours….Its going to be difficult not feeling it anymore!
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The last time I had written something like this, it was titled, ‘Air…Is it ours?’ and was a dedication to my seniors but this time as you see, things have changed. Dunno how true is the title given to me ‘Miss Intellectual’ but as I look at the mug which sits pretty with my teddy, it doesn’t take much time to go down the memory lane in a flash.

10 comments:

Bharti Bedi said...

cmon i need a more bitchy post now...this was too simple...:P
how bout one on the faculty!!!

loved it and unloved it the same time...truely true!!!

rock on...and wish you the bestest always

Anonymous said...

except Noor's, thoughts on every1 else are too on-the surface..
cmon i need a more bitchy post now...this was too simple
how bout one on the faculty!!!
hehehe yes there r no copyrights on comments island girl
mehak

Bharti Bedi said...

oho yarrr. wtf!!:P

n thnks for the spell change grl

Alesea said...

@Island girl
hmm..well this wasnt about bitchy...this was a completely personal post .... faculty...hmm..doesnt sound to be a bad idea
and thanks for the best wishes

@mehak
well..even in her case i havent delved too deep..and i did foresee this one coming from u..to be on the surface is the complete point of this post...going deeper would have completely defeated the purpose of the post..this is how i recall my classmates when they pass me by in a flash!
and as for bitchy well this wasnt about bitchy...this was a completely personal post .... faculty...hmm..doesnt sound to be a bad idea
and u 2 stop fighting on the blog

@island girl
Pleasure!!

Pallav said...

well...Nothingman is a guy for sure :) i do not know 80% of ur class but still some nice descriptions...by the way, chinks call punjabis Jangali...for whatever reason :P

Gimme a buzz sometime.

N

Anonymous said...

well nice piece...n this malnourished grl hs put on sm weight...

Alesea said...

@Nothingman
well yes..he is..its just ur name that made her feel that..she called u thinking that u r a girl!
and yaeh..how would u know..u were too busy counting the choco chips in 'Hide and Seek'

@Annonymous
thanks...indeed she has...but still needs some more!!!!!

Anonymous said...

hey hi..ekta and bhavneet here..well now u wud know y i pestered u so mch 4 ur blogid....me n ekta lovd ur post...ekta'a all smiles..but m still wondering if m there nywhere in the write up? do let me know? vaise its realy very very apt n we lovd readn it.cheers!!!!

Alesea said...

@Ekta and bhavneet
Thanks for liking the post..unfortunately bhavneet u r not there...sorry for that...u will be included in the near future for sure
thanks again

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